Start Dating end the phone call

Dating end the phone call

But you know what, the fact of the matter remains that most men are shy to talk to women over the phone.

There are quite a few men out there who may be suave and chatty with all their pals, but when it comes to a girl who’s a dating potential, all they probably do is mumble.

It may sound awfully annoying to you when you find that he can actually chat for a while with his boy pals, but he gets his tongue tied over a phone call with you.

You love speaking over the phone, but the man in your life can’t dream of doing the same.

So what is the real reason behind why men hate talking on the phone? Is it because you forgot to pay your bills on time, or is your cell phone low on battery, or are you way too tired to even take your heels off before you hit the sack? You didn’t call because you didn’t want to, which is the bottom line. From my conclusion, I guess there’s no real difference in phone etiquette when it comes to men and women, we just have different perspectives.

And what can we men chat with women on an hourly or less-than-hourly basis? Almost all conversations on the phone consist of repetitions of “Hey, what are you doing? What I figure, and what a lot of men figure, is that phones should only be used when you actually have something to say. ” may be sweet, but asking us to talk about something beyond that is pure nightmare!

Just because we don’t call every fifteen minutes doesn’t mean we don’t care. C’mon, how much of our life could change in fifteen minutes?

Talking over the phone with you would not only give him a headache, but also put him back on his other daily activities. Most women think this is the principal reason, but as a matter of fact, this is the last reason for a man to avoid your calls. He may have liked you when you guys met, but after putting up with you during all those long phone calls, he’s probably nursing a nervous breakdown, or has written for a restraining order.

Don’t ever assume that he doesn’t want to speak to you, unless you’re convinced it’s none of the other reasons. [Read: Where to find a nice guy] Or he probably thinks you’ve got a mouth that’s fitted with a motor that throws out words at gusts of 300 words a minute peaking up to 600 at times, and he finds it really annoying.

But men in general, are not really into using phones for a long duration. And after a while, a sore nodding neck and a restless mind can do more damage to him than a hectic day at his workplace.

Men like answering a lot of short calls more often. Real men especially love calls that go like “Hello …uh huh. Men are bored of your yakity-yak So how much of your life could have changed in the past couple of hours?

Now, unless it’s the last reason where he really, really hates you, I guess you shouldn’t really have a problem with the scarcity of his calls.