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Dating website that urges married people to have an affair

But most have taken their pictures recently and surreptitiously.

He tells me he had a brief affair with a woman from one of his company's offices.

He joined Ashley Madison because that encounter left him wanting more. "Everything about her consumed my thoughts, and that's when I first signed up.

He says he likes it rough, and tells me he cheated for the first time a few months ago.

He was in Vegas for a bachelor party, and he took a girl from the blackjack table upstairs to his room. Biderman is right about types like F., but wrong that all the men on Ashley Madison want sex and sex alone.

"I could never have this conversation with her," he says.

"She would start talking about the baby, or moving out of the city." She does not wear lingerie for him, like she used to. This man is somewhat detached, but also eager as a boy.

In the most extreme, these pronouns — to whom the men claim to be happily married — become antiheroes to the plan.

"She just canceled her dinner, so now I can't meet you on Tuesday.

I get a smile on my face when I have an email from you."He wants something from me that is not sex, even if it is disguised as sex. "Why is it I get the feeling I'm missing out on something very important? He says checking his email is his favorite time of day.

Here on a site where the idea, ostensibly, is to facilitate no-strings-attached affairs, a lot of men are trying to forge real bonds. He thinks of me at work, he thinks of me when he is birdcalling. On Ashley Madison, wives are mostly reduced to pronouns, and in that reduction they are less a human than a fact that shares their home.

He knew he was smarter, but she was beautiful and kind, and that was enough for him then.